Tag: healthy relationships

Help! I Can’t Make it Past the First Date

Help! I Can’t Make it Past the First Date

Television makes it look so easy, you fill out an online dating profile and three dates later you’re planning the wedding.  In the real world in never works like that!  Getting swept up in the idea of getting matched with “the one” is easy, but more often than not it is like this. Help! I can’t make it past the first date with anyone.  Dating takes skill and a dating coach can help you improve those skills.

A dating coach like Real Love Advisors Melbourne FL can work with you to help improve your dating skills and overcome the personal issues that are holding you back from having fun while dating.  People hire coaches all the time for everything from improving their career to helping them lose weight, so a dating coach really shouldn’t intimidate you.  Here are some things a dating coach can help with.

Help! I Can’t Make it Past the First Date

You go on the first date, everything seems to be going well until the evening ends.  Your date says they aren’t interested in going out again. You have no idea where you went wrong.  A coach can help you figure it out and help you get out if this rut and you won’t have to worry about being given the wrong number again.

You Have Never Been in Relationship

A long term relationship is defined as anything that lasts six months or more, is exclusive and there is intimacy involved.  If you are older than 25 and have yet to be in a relationship then you may want to work with a coach that can help you with that.  There may be some personal issue that keeps you from maintaining a relationship.  Commitment phobia is a fairly common thing, so is low self-esteem and that may be why you struggle.  Here is some help with commitment phobia.

The Opposite Sex Makes You Nervous

Nervous is okay, even highly confident people get nervous but if you are paralyzed by anxiety or you can’t even hold a conversation with the opposite sex, then you have an issue.  There are strategies to help you reduce anxiety and boost your confidence.

You Date the Wrong People

Do you always find yourself attracted to the ‘Bad Boy’ or the ‘Mean Girl’ and then you find yourself in a horrible relationship?  You can blame biology…to a point.  It is in our nature to be attracted to a type of person, but dating the same type of person leads you to the same heartbreak.  A coach can help you be aware of the people that you are attracted to and figure out if it going to be destructive.  A coach can help you break the pattern and make better relationship choices.